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Life, the Universe, and Spokane
Most, if not all, of you have heard the news that Juliana and I have been sent on vigil for the Pelican with our elevation to occur at An Tir Coronation - that is, for each of our elevations to occur. We'll have two separate ceremonies. Those of you not on Facebook who want to see Their Majesties make the offer can watch it on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ReIbmv4CIcQ).

We were surprised, even though we knew something was up as the King commanded all heralds at the event to be in court. We were called into court and given King's Favors for the help we gave him at Pennsic when he came in for consultation. Then he gobsmacked us with the offers.

So, our plans for the fall have gotten a wee bit more complicated as we now have garb to make. Well, we were planning on doing some wardrobe restoration, but not of this grandeur. Wow!

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I didn't intend it to be quite so long between updates, but life just keeps going at a breakneck pace. Julia's university had a search for a new president since their current president announced his retirement - and it was an experience that I don't think anyone would say was pleasant. Let's just say a new president has been chosen, but things have not calmed down - no one is happy.

My doctor retired so I've got a new one - but that has gotten me a little off schedule, which means that l'm dealing with more dystonia issues than normal. Things should get better at the beginning of July, which is good because...

I'll be stepping up as the principal herald of An Tir!

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Life has calmed down just a bit. Not much, but a bit. What we've been up to:

Julia has been conferencing, a lot! Since the last week of Feb/first weekend of March, she's been to four conferences. Four! She's exhausted. And her university is beginning its search for a new president - the old one announced his retirement in January.

I gave a talk on Changing Palates: Changing Uses of Herbs and Spices from the 13th to the 16th C in England at the beginning of the month. I barely got all my data entry done in March and spent the last weekend of the month doing my data analysis for the talk. This was a continuation of research I had done a couple of years ago, so I knew what I'd see in some of the data, but there were a few interesting data points. Like how nutmeg wasn't being used until just before the end of the 16th C then became wildly popular yet mace was popular before that.

The talk itself went really well. Most of my audience were academics so I got really good feedback and some nice encouragement to consider moving my research along for publication. I'm a few years away from that, I think - I want to find a lot of household data to go with what I'm finding in cookbooks, but I'm getting there.

News on the kitty front isn't quite so good. Sable got an eye infection (we think) that has gotten her immune system revved up and started her autoimmune disorder attacking her eye. Or there was no infection and her autoimmune disorder attacked her eye, we're not 100% sure - it can be really hard to tell without cultures and we treated with antibiotics first (so cultures will be useless). What we do know right now is the autoimmune issue is flared up. So my poor kitty can't see out of one eye very much right now; it's very inflamed and the cornea is very thickened. But we are treating it with cyclosporine eye cream and an antibiotic to prevent infection. Once we get that cleared back up, I will talk to her regular vet about adjusting her dose of oral cyclosporine. We can't go full dose or her gums overgrow her teeth, but the half dose isn't enough.

Speaking of her vet, we discovered that the vet has a really good rapport with Sable. How do we know that? Because the demon kitty of the vet visit has been docile the last several visits (which actually had me worried that she was really quite ill). But on this visit, her vet was out and they had a relief vet which Sable Did Not Like. And at the eye clinic, Sable made it very clear that this WAS NOT HER VET. Wow! They had to sedate her to examine her eye so she couldn't bite or scratch them or jerk because they were going to put instruments against her eye during the exam (which is bad enough for people).

But she's doing better. The eye is still angry red, but not nearly as demonic-looking as Thursday.

And things are quieting down here, a little.

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We have not fallen off the earth. Just been incredibly busy, busy, busy. Things have been going pretty well for us. Julia has been rocking out as the president of her university's faculty organization. Work has been going well for me.

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Yes, it's been a while. Things have been incredibly busy in the Smith-Wensel (or Wensel-Smith) household.

Since I last updated, the porch has been totally torn off and replaced. What was supposed to take 5 weeks took 5 months. Our contractor seemed incapable of scheduling all his projects and manpower to get our porch done in a timely manner. And incapable of remembering what the project encompassed and worked hard to tell me that Julia agreed to one thing in a meeting and tell her that I agreed to something else - and always in his favor.

Julia's stint as Faculty Organization President at EWU is going well. The big fight over whether or not the university would switch from a quarter-based calendar to a semester-based calendar came out in favor of the faculty and student's preference -- staying on the quarter system. As a result of the work that was done to get that result, Julia and some of her colleagues are working on a couple of articles for peer-reviewed journals that compare the efficacy of quarter systems and semester systems and how schools do after they switch. I won't spoil the surprise beyond saying that the results are not what you might think. (Ask Julia for more information.)

In dystonia news, I've continued to have problems with my ribs. My doctor has come to the conclusion that the problem isn't so much spasms as spasticity and that might also be a lot of what is happening in my neck and shoulders too. So we've added a muscle relaxant that is designed to work on receptors in the spinal cord associated with muscle spasticity. And it has worked well. I still need the Botox, but we've been able to redistribute it a little. Unfortunately my neuro is retiring this spring so he's referring me to a new doctor (which I will need to clear with my insurance company *sigh*).

And now for the question that everyone really wants the answer to: How are we finding married life? it's a lot like the last 20 years have been, but it feels good knowing that we have a lot of legal rights and protections we didn't have before.

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Well, I've seen the doctor. He does think what's been going on with the ribs is dystonia. Instead of the dystonia being just the rhombus muscles like we thought (it is there, just not as severe as thought), it seems the dystonia has moved further down the spine and is presenting in the intercostal muscles of my ribs (the muscles between the ribs). That would be why when they spasm it hurts so much to breathe and why twisting my torso can provoke the spasms. So, he found the triggering nerves in my back and Botoxed the pathway there too. OUCH! Those were some of the most painful injections I got on Friday - I couldn't help but flinch (normally I don't move at all except to take a deeper breath - nope, gotta get away from that damned needle this time). So I'm up to 19 injections and 450 units of Botox.

So my diagnosis has changed from cervical dystonia to segmental dystonia since I now have two adjacent body parts (head/neck and back/ribs) affected. That's what was decided last time, but when the botox didn't seem to help, we weren't sure. We are now.  Unfortunately, the dystonia is progressing and I'm not happy about that. We don't know how far it could go and I do have some symptoms of general dystonia on top of it all (fortunately only when I'm tired). If it gets too, too bad, there is always the possibility of brain surgery, but it is going to have to get REALLY BAD for me to want to go there. Like Botox and other toxins stop working bad. But we are nowhere near that yet.

But between this progression and the headache progression last year, Julia and I have had to talk about what happens in the future. Right now I'm only working part time by my office's preference. I'd like to work more hours because I have more work than I can get done in the time allotted. But last fall, until we got the headaches back under control, I was missing one day a week due to headaches. While the rib spasms have been out of control, I haven't had as much energy as I did before May. But I think we have both the headache and ribs sorted out so I don't think I will miss as much work as I did last fall, but having the time off to rest has been nice. But I really want to work. Gah!

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The wedding went well. The ceremony was lovely with one little bobble. It was a little cooler than anticipated, but adrenaline kept us warm until the end of the receiving line. It was very nice seeing our friends and family supporting us during the ceremony and giving us a standing ovation at the end.

We did most of the photos indoors because I started getting a little chilly. We didn't do many formal pictures - just with family and the officiant/minister. We have candids on some digital cameras to look at yet - once we've reviewed them, we'll put some of them up.

There was some dancing both (nearly) modern and (nearly) period. Lots of talking was had by all and lots and lots of eating! Not as much drinking so Julia and I have a lot more wine and beer left over than we anticipated; fortunately, we bought stuff we like to drink.

Of course, it wouldn't be a wedding if a fight didn't break out.:)  At least in this case it was a fencing match between the officiant/minister and another friend of ours. When asked who was defending the brides' honor, they responded, "Yes." They seemed to have been well-matched, splitting the matches nearly evenly.

We had lots and lots of time with family during the days before and after the wedding. Some of it was really busy and some of it was more relaxed. I never thought weddings were a multi-day affair, but I was really, really wrong. I needed to go back to work, just to get some rest again. Wow!

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Things have been quite busy here as we prepare for the wedding and still meet our obligations to our normal lives. This weekend we travelled north of Seattle to attend An Tir Coronation. On the way, we stopped in Seattle so Julia could have a three-hour meeting as part of her faculty-org presidential duties. As a result, we didn't get to our hotel (half-hour from site) until 11:30 pm and she had an 8 am Laurel meeting. Can we say tired?

We both have dresses for the celebratory event in September. We thought we had a dress for me, but after we found a wonderful dress for her, the dress I had didn't match well. So we got me a new dress that is absolutely amazing! The timing for it coming in got a little dicey as I wanted her to see it and compare it in tone and appearance with the dress we already had for her before she left for Pennsic, but it has all worked out. And somehow, it even manages to give me an hourglass figure! That dress is working miracles, I tell you.

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Pittsburgh Peeps --

I've gotta a huge favor to ask. My sister will be coming to my wedding and has never flown before. She's nervous about flying. I'm planning to have her fly out on Sept 6 and would like to try to hook her flights up with someone I know.

Thanks!

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We officially have a venue and a date! September 8 (yes a Sunday) at the Glover Mansion (http://www.glovermansion.com/)!

Now, we just have to work out all the details. Details, details, details. The devil is in the details.

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